Every couple can and should have a good and loving marriage, by applying a few set of rules. You will not only build a better marriage, but a happier loving family.
Respect- In all events, at all times you have to respect your Spouse. Respect for each other means that you will make decisions together, never call each other names, and especially NEVER threaten to divorce one another even if it is in a fit of anger. Lets think as Marriage is a partnership and both you and your spouse has an equal stake in the marriage.
Trust- Do not lie(white lie or not) or hide the truth from your spouse. Belief me, when he finds out the truth from another party instead of yourself, the damage had been done. Slowly but surely your spouse's trust will fade away. A good friend of mine once told me that a marriage with secrets is a marriage doomed to failure. Lets not give any reason to doubt each other.
Fun- Marriage is all about having fun else why even bother getting married? I had seen so many couples after their 5th year of marriage start feeling draggy, bored and that is a contributing factor to the dreaded D word. (Divorce). There is nothing wrong with having a convivial atmosphere. You heard the famous saying- A couple who plays together, stays together. My husband and I have been married for fourteen years now and we still have fun. We love watching movies together and dining in any restaurant at least once a week. Start having FUN now.
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